Can’t tell if willfully ignorant or just an asshole.
FYI: The Doctor CHOSE to marry River. If you watch the episode instead of burying your head in your ass, you would that the only thing that needed to be done to restore time was for River and the Tesselecta to touch and then River allowed Amy to uncuff The Doctor, at which point he CHOSE to marry River instead of touch her.
THE DOCTOR LOVES RIVER. HE CALLS HER ‘WIFE’ AND IS A DOTING HUSBAND. TEN, ON THE OTHER HAND, STATES THAT MARRYING LIZ WAS ‘A MISTAKE’ etc.
Conclusion: River is THE WIFE.
Liz: NOT really. She HATES him after he leaves and NEVER comes back.
Now, if we actually look at the episode instead of using childish insults and swearing, we will see that River was threatening the entire universe and he was screaming at how she embarassed him, so marrying her was kind of the only way to get this murderous woman raised to kill to stop threatening the universe. And if we use a direct quote:
You see River as a seductress, a lover, someone he flirts and toys with, but not a wife. Not someone who’s always there for him. “One psycopath per TARDIS”. He asked because he needed someone. She couldn’t be that.
Sorry to say, but OP is right. Plus, with other love interests before and after River, it would be much too wrong to assume she’s his “true love” anyway.